me, myself & I…

Our little secrets are important: they help make us unique, they help us grow and earn our independence.

And if our secrets are important to us, then other people’s secrets are important to them too.  Try not to betray the trust of someone who has confided a secret in you.  If you feel you’re on the verge of doing so, stop and think about how you felt the last time someone gave one of your secrets away…

Assume you are a girl if you are a boy)
It’s your first time. As you lie back your
muscles tighten. You put him
off for a while searching for an excuse, but he
refuses to be swayed as he
approaches you. He asks if you’re afraid and
you
shake your head bravely.
He has had more experience, but it’s the first
time his finger has found
the right place. He pro bes deeply and you shiver;
your body tenses; but
he’s gentle like he promised he’d be. He looks
deeply within your eyes
and tells you to trust him - he’s done this many
times before. His cool
smile relaxes you and you open
wider to give him
more room for an easy
entrance.You begin to plead and beg him to hurry,
but he slowly takes his
time, wanting to cause you as little pain as
possible. As he presses
closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give
way; pain surges throughout
your body and you feel the slight trickle of
blood as he continues. He
looks at you
concerned and asks you if it’s too
painful.Your eyes are
filled with tears but you shake your head and nod
for him to go on. He
begins going in and out with skill but you are
now too numb to feel him
within you. After a few moments, you feel
something bursting within you and
he pulls it out of you, you lay panting, glad to
have it
over. He looks
at
you and smiling warmly, tells you, with a
chuckle; that you have been
his most stubborn yet most rewarding experience.
You smile and thank your
dentist. After all,it was your first time to have
a tooth pulled. Naughty, Naughty! What were you thinkin’ ? PERVERT
I know what you were thinking!

How to Know if a Girl Likes You?

Easy. Don’t ask. Just open your eyes.

Buying Signals

ACTION speaks louder than words. Don’t wait for words, look for ACTION.

You just have to look for positive signs, or buying signals. If:

• she brushes up against you

• she laughs when you say something (even when it’s not funny!)

• she gives you a compliment

• she’s turning red when you talk to her

• she gets nervous when you’re around

• she’s nervous while talking to you

• she’s playing with something (pen, bracelet, necklace…)

• she’s twirling her hair

• she fingers hers lips

• she didn’t mention to you she had a boyfriend, but she did with others

• she’s checking in the conversation if you have a girlfriend

• she reveals her feelings, and say: just kidding

• she tries to be with you

• she’s trying to sell herself (sports, work, cuisine, sensitivity, wealth…)

• she offers you something

• she makes an effort with her outfit

• she tries to be more beautiful (hairdresser, new clothes, lipstick, perfume…)

• she fakes jealousy for fun

• she invites you indirectly or if she suggests any activity

• she likes to borrow your jumper, your jacket, your pen, your cap…

• she asks you for help when she could ask somebody else

• she likes your firstname and likes to pronounce it

• she likes your clothes

• she’s asking for help

• she wants to be with you

• she wants to hear your voice

• she’s touching you while talking to you (arm, hand, thigh…)

• she’s touching you "accidently"

• she likes to be close to you or in your space

• she’s usually looking at you

• she’s looking at you when leaving a room

How to know if a guy likes you?

You just have to look for positive signs, or buying signals if:

• he comes close to you
• he tries to make you laugh
• he asks you questions
• he tries to make you talk about yourself
• he asks for your phone number or Email
• he tries to demonstrate in the conversation his men’s qualities
• he’s trying to sell himself (sports, work, wealth… )
• he offers help
• he gives you a compliment
• he blushes when you talk to him
• you see he gets nervous when you’re around
• he’s nervous while talking to you (hands, eyes, voice…usually you can notice because he’s doing too much
• he plays with an object (cigarette, pen, glass…)
• he can’t help looking at you, and when you look at him: he suddenly looks in another direction
• he can’t help making eye-contact with you
• he reveals his feelings in a disguised way, and say: just kidding
• he tries to be with you
• he offers you something
• he makes an effort with his outfit
• he tries to be more hansome (hairdresser, new clothes, shoes, watch…)
• he fakes jealousy for fun
• he invites you indirectly or he suggests any activity
• he likes to borrow anything from you, (typex, pen, rubber, clothes…)
• when there’s nothing left for you, he says: you can take mine
• he asks you for help when he could ask somebody else
• he likes your firstname and likes to pronounce it
• he likes your clothes
• he wants to be with you
• he wants to hear your voice
• he touches you accidentally or gently (arm, shoulder, hand…)
• he likes to be close to you or in your space
• he’s usually looking at you
• he’s looking at you when leaving a room
• he gazes in your eyes with love

Eric Benet - The Last Time

The first time I fell in love was long ago.
I didn't know how to give my love at all.
The next time I settled for what felt so close.
But without romance, you're never gonna fall.
After everything I've learned;
Now it's finally my turn.
This is the last time I'll fall... in love.
The first time we walked under that starry sky,
there was a moment when everything was clear.
I didn't need to ask or even wonder why, because each question is answered when your near.
and I'm wise enough to know when a miracle unfolds, this is the last time i'll fall in love.
Now don't hold back, just let me know.
Could i be moving much too fast or way too slow.
'Cause all of my life, I've waited for this day.
To find that once in a lifetime, this is it, I'll never be the same.
You'll never know what it's taken me to say these words.
And now that I've said them, they could never be enough.
As far as I can see, there's only you and only me.

This is the last time I'll fall in love.
Last time i'll fall in love.
The last time i'll fall... in love.

Black Eyed Peas - My Humps

What you gon’ do with all that junk?
All that junk inside that trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get you drunk,
Get you love drunk off my hump.
What you gon’ do with all that ass?
All that ass inside them jeans?
I’ma make, make, make, make you scream
Make you scream, make you scream.
What you gon do with all that junk?
All that junk inside that trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get you drunk,
Get you love drunk off this hump.
What you gon’ do wit all that breast?
All that breast inside that shirt?
I’ma make, make, make, make you work
Make you work, work, make you work.
She’s got me spendin’.
Spendin all your money on me and spendin’ time on me
She’s got me spendin’.
Spendin’ all your money on me, on me, on me.